Monday, March 02, 2009
Conclusion!
Wow, it has been a fabulous February. It is the month of "SWEET" love. Reading books about
LOVE, HEALING; watching movies that shares about
LOVE; attending services where Pastor preached about
LOVE and seeing couples who are TRULY, MADLY, DEEPLY in
LOVE. I had a LOVELY
LOVE FEBRUARY. =]]
Anyway, like what my title says, CONCLUSION; I am here to (of course) CONCLUDE! =]] After hearing the first series where Pastor preached, it kept me thinking; DEEP thinking. Though Pastor shared about the 5 needs of a man and woman in a marriage, I seriously think it applies even with people who are not in marriage too (beside the sexual fulfillment; remember is a sin to do it before marriage, the marriage bed is sacred =]])
Every girl goes for someone who she love to be affectionate, someone who she can converse with, someone who is the real him before her, someone who can provide for her and surely someone who can love the family as much as he loves her (I remembered Pastor Ming said look at the person you love, the way he/she treats her family; IT IS VERY IMPORTANT)On the same side of the coin, I believe every boy will be hunting these in a girl; someone who can enjoy life with them, doing the same thing together, their girlfriend to be the pretty one whom he can be proud to show to others, someone who is not a nag, but someone who can handle her "life" (before they are married) well and proper [ someone who is more independent; a girl who rely on him for strength and not help!] and someone who can boast their ego like a flat balloon to the hot-air balloon in the sky, yeah! =]] These are needs of both girl and boy, man and woman.
It keeps me thinking with these, can then all couples build a strong and lasting relationship? I think my answer is
NO. These are just the needs of what's lacking in us and it needs to be filled up (just like inside of us there's a space that only God can fill and once that's done, our lives is "complete"). Like the drama, to build a lasting relationship, is to know the NEEDS and the area that's affecting the relationship and mend it.
It is not about replacing; it is repairing. As I read the book, a sentence that kept popping up before me is
"If you know this is what will make you mate happy, would you not do it, just to see him/her happy?"These "needs" are to tell us that all of us has a needs that need to be filled but these are not the key points to maintain and sustain relationship. So what if the person you love has ALL of the needs that you want, does that makes him/her the one for you that you will treasure him/her for the rest of your life? I DOUBT SO.
So I just conclude, these are just points for us to be aware that in all of us, we all have needs. =]] As I have had mentioned, true and lasting love is not found, it is build when two parties are willing to commit into it.
TRUE LOVE IS SACRIFICE! =] TRUE LOVE TEACHES YOU TO MEND YOUR PROBLEMS NOT END! Cowards will run and replace, but true hero/heroine faced and overcome it. Like the saying goes,
TOUGH PROBLEMS DON'T LAST, ONLY TOUGH MAN/WOMAN! I hereby just wish all loving couples to be able to brace through life and storm together. =]] May the love in February always be found throughout the days of your life..
PS : I am so happy that a member of mine is attached and to see the glow and smile on his face is AMAZING. =]] He is attached. FINALLY! Congratulates. *I will never forget how our cell group cheered for him when we heard of the announcement. We are always behind you!*
love is in the air,
daphne_chloe
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