Tuesday, February 03, 2009
My Valentine Story
Writer : Daphne
Real Life Story of : Jack & Mary (not their real names)
Mary had a very terrible past with regards towards love. Her first love with this young man whom she used to think was her life have had torn the future of hers. She didn't know nor even expect things would ever become bad when she was in that lovely-dovey relationship. =]
Every good things that can happen in a relationship, it happened on Mary. The man was sincere, loving, caring, sweet, thoughtful and loving. Well well, like what everyone mentioned, that's the "honeymoon" period. This period of a relationship doesn't last long; maybe a month or two, maximum three. True love is now being tested. True colours are seen. Will then, this be the true man who Mary going to keep forever?
Mary faced financial burden when this man decided to quit his job and rely on her.
Mary endured physical pain when he was in his foul mood.
Mary had to forgo herself of her lovely skirts and her favourite colour because of him.
Mary were forced to end all friendship because of his insecurities.
Mary had to take his nonsense like pouring water her head, pushing her anything that's due to his pleasure and fun.
Mary just have to endure it because of her love towards him.
The worst of all, Mary were "threatened" to leave God for his sake.
The stage had came to an end one day. She thought to herself, why bothered to hold onto such an agony when things were never meant to be this way. She believes in fairy tales, she believe in the God of Love. She believes her love story was not meant to be an enduring painful story for her to write for the rest of her life.
MARY WAS RIGHT, that wasn't what God had wanted her to be.
She let go of what she mentioned as love.
She moved on with those pain and hatred within her.
One thing she did the best was to come back to the arms of the One who truly loves her. She went back to God and while God was healing her soul, God placed a great man (Jack) beside her to support her through her past hurts. She was OF COURSE very distance towards this young man, because she had a "belief" in her heart that ALL guys are the same. Man, this young man was patient, was persistence to prove his love across.
She doubted, she questioned. She even rejected him.
Well, actions will smoothen the hearts of woman. Efforts will change the minds of girls. Love will make a girl stronger. She eventually accept this young man after a long haul within herself.
Today, as she saw her past man, she longer have had the hatred within her, no longer feeling those pain she have had endured. She has a strong arms that's supporting her, loving her and taking care of her. As she held onto his hands, she knows despite her future, he will be there to clear her past and write with her a neater, beautiful future. =]
Gosh, that's what I called love. True love will allow you to forget your past, will allow you to look at it and smile over it. True love will be what's written more than just in the heart, but on the face of the couples. True love are what we are finding for today.
Daphne just wanna wished everyone an Advanced Valentine Day and may those couples get even stronger this period and those who are single, including me, maybe we find our love one soon.
love,
d.
4:18:00 PM
